 What is Your Authentic Path?
Do not go where the path may lead; go instead where there is no path and leave a trail. ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson
In the past, many of us were following down a path, that of self-destruction. Before I started my recovery, I was the kind of person who didn't know where to go. I was insecure and lost. So I followed a path, encouraged by other lost souls, who like me were drowning their pain in substance abuse and other addictions. Then, one day I decided to follow another path. I decided to follow the path of those hopeful souls, those who wanted to save themselves. I chose recovery -- or maybe recovery chose me. Whichever it was, doesn't matter. I am here.
When I found this quote this morning, I started thinking what a turnaround my life has been. I used to be a follower. Now I am a leader. I do go where there is no path and I do leave a trail. I understand that not everyone is cut out to become a leader out there in the world. However, if we want to live a great life, beyond recovery, we must find a way to become a leader of oneself, of that inner world, that conversation we have with ourselves everyday. Are you the leader of your own life? Or are you just following that inner voice that is destructive and negative? Are you in charge of your destiny or are you letting others decide for you?
Ralph Waldo Emerson is a true inspiration for me today. This is about being true to one self. We are all similar in many ways, but we also are truly unique, each and every one of us. What is the path you want to create so you can be true to your very own spirit? Do you have the courage it takes to step out of the main stream and go where is no path? Will you leave a trail that may help others?
Coaching Question: Are you following down an existing path that may no longer fit who you are? Is it time for you to create your own? This week, be mindful of the choices you make each day. Are these choices in alignment with your true, unique self? Make a list of these items in your life that no longer are a reflection of you and become willing to let them go. Think of the horizon in front of you; is this the direction you really want? Sometimes we need to readjust our aim. Are you on automatic pilot or do you stay in a place of mindfulness? Maybe it is time for some reevaluation - so you keep going where there is no path - just you true, unique adventure, one that makes a difference, one that leaves a trail for others to follow, who are still in need of a path, until they are ready to create their own.
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• Monday, April 14, 2008 - Blazing a Trail and Faith
As I do this more and more, I find that I need to leave behind the status quo, and my perceptions of security, and make choices that take me out of my comfort zone. (That security is illusory, but nevermind). This requires from me faith in my connection to a Loving God, so that by acting from my heart, I will move in harmony with the world, creating a home of Grace for all of us.